Choosing a first-date restaurant is a decision that puts the rest of the relationship at stake, you either make it or break it, right? Making the right choice will most certainly secure you a second date, and earn you points, but making the wrong one will probably ruin the rest of the night, to say the least. Today I bring you a list of the places you can go to for that first date, regardless of how long you have known this person these are definitely go-to places.
A feel confident kind of place
Do you remember that saying “dress to impress”? keep this in mind, but also make sure it doesn’t look like you’re trying too hard, you want to have a good time, get to know each other, go to an interesting place, but you don’t want to ask for a loan to pay for the experience. We all accept choosing a first-date venue is still a straining situation, play it safe, but also put some personal thought. You can go to a cocktail bar, which gives you the opportunity to talk all night, but also to taste different and complex drinks.
Not sure is a first date
So you’ve known this person for a while, you have had the opportunity to hang out in groups, but the opportunity to be just the two of you rose and you can’t miss it. You should choose a bar that has good food of course, how do most hangouts start? A drink. Well bars with good food gives you the opportunity to switch from a “Let’s go have some drinks” to “that was an amazing dinner, we should do this more often” in the blink of an eye.
Show them a little bit of you
If you want to go to this first date aiming for more dates after that, the correct approach is to start sharing pieces of each other’s life. So, why not go to a place either of you love? You know the food will not let you down, you will feel more comfortable and relaxed. You can share tips on why you love this place so much and then go from there.
GUYS! And I can’t stress this enough! I have been in way too many first dates and let me tell you something, as an authorized voice and unofficial expert about this, my coffee shop dates have been the best, even if they sucked! First dates are about going straight to the point, which is? See if this person is cool and worth a second and third, how are they, and if there’s potential in your interaction. Plus, is not expensive at all! You won’t be spending more than $20 overall. Chats over a coffee date are great, you have your mind in the conversation and in the coffee, no interruptions from chewing food or from servers, right? Also, since you can drink your coffee at your own pace, if you’re not having a good time, you can just consume it and then it’s all done!